| Editorials
        Page 1 Emotional enlightenment (1999) 
        Commentary on the articles "Emotional
        Intelligence Meets Traditional Standards of
        Intelligence" and "Models of Emotional
        Intelligence." (1999) 
        What is the right way to feel? (1999) 
        On effective regulation and management of
        emotions (2000) 
        On personality psychology and profiting from
        patients (2000) A
        university professor encourages students to think about
        making money, not helping people. 
        On the Ciarrochi et al book, leadership in
        EI, the United States and my own mission (2001 
         
        Pages 2-9 
        2 - Editorial
        Writing Related to EI -
        March 2002. Concerns about the Mayer-Salovey Model of EI 
        3 - My meeting
        with Rich Roberts - April,
        2002. Rich, who was teaching psychology in Australia, had
        been criticizing the field of EI 
        4 - The 80%
        Myth - October 2002.
        Discusses the misleading statements made by Goleman about
        EI, IQ and "success" 
        5 - Emotional
        Intelligence or Perfect Private Secretary? - October 2002. Compares an old book on
        being a "perfect secretary" to Goleman's model
        of EI. 
        6 - Motivation
        and "Laziness" -
        Jan 2003. About a teenager's motivation to carry her book
        bag upstairs like her father wanted her to 
        7 - Teens,
        drugs, rules, school counselors - Jan 2003 
        8 - Political
        Leadership: Fear of God or Love of Jesus? - Feb 2003. A suggestion for George Bush
        before he decided to invade Iraq. 
        9 - Conscience
        or Obedience to Authority?
        - Feb 2003. About Australian soldiers being told they can
        disobey orders to kill civilians in Iraq.  
         
        Pages 10-19 
        10 -
        Invalidation, Understanding, Depression, Education, and
        Killing. - April 2003.  
        11 - Missing 
        12 - Don't
        you think.. - April 2003.
        Analyzing the question "Don't you think....?" 
        13 -
        Education, Values - April
        2003 
        14 -
        Punishment in schools -
        June 2003 
        15 - Chemical
        Imbalance? - July 2003.
        Abusive father tries to convince his teen son that the
        teen has a "chemical balance" 
        16 - Some of
        my experiences with trying to help teens - July 2003. Includes comparison of how
        teens and slaves are treated. 
        17 - Personal
        Writing about my own relationships, needs, people who
        have hurt me or others etc -
        July 2003. 
        18 - Personal
        writing about what should and shouldn't be legal and a
        lot of other stuff - July
        2003 
        19 - Fear of
        parents cutting off communication when trying to help
        teens (unfinished) - July
        2003 
         
        20-29 
        20 -
        Emotional Intelligence is not "learned" - July 2003 
        21-
        Deception, hypocrisy, respect and teen suicide - July 2003 
        22-
        Adolescent Beauty - July
        2003 
        23 - When it
        Comes to Emotional Support, Age Doesn't Matter - July 23 
        24 - Some journal writing about
        suicidal teens - July 2003 
        25 - missing 
        26 - The
        "Emotionally Intelligent Soldier" Question - Aug 2003 
        27 -Forgiveness, Understanding,
        Learning and Education - Feb 2004 
        28 -
        Education, Motivation, Punishment, Rebelliousness,
        Defiance - Feb 2004 
        29 - Feeling
        Loved, or Feeling Punished and Threatened - March 2004 
         
        30 -39 
        30 - Abuse,
        conflict resolution, violence prevention and education - March 2004 
        31 -
        Feeling Defensive, Sex, Culture, Education, EI and World
        Leadership - March
        2004 
        32 - Missing 
        33 - Personal writing about
        admiration and other emotional needs  
        34 - Angels
        and Wardens 
        35 - How do
        you help someone who has been abused? 
        36
        -Frustration with the field of EI  
        37 - More
        frustration field of EI  
        38 -
        Depression, computers - Trying to explain depression in
        computer terms 
        39
        -Importance of Feelings, Listening 
         
        40-49 
        40 -
        Dangerous to tell the truth
        - Part 1 
        41 -
        Dangerous to tell the truth
        - Part 2 
        42 - Peru,
        Singapore, Education, Efficiency, Brainwashing etc. 
        43 - The
        Field of Emotional Intelligence - More personal
        complaints 
        44 - Beyond Resentment? 
        45 - Leading
        In The Wrong Direction 
        46 - David
        Caruso, the field of EI, dysfunctional families and other
        things 
        47 -
        Sympathetic to Wittgenstein and Kant 
        48 - Power,
        Testing, Love, Suicide, Many things.... 
        49 -
        Education, Family Values, Suicidal Teens 
         
        50-59 
        50 - Another
        Example of a Caring Personīs Priorities Changing 
        51 - Personal
        Writing -- Feeling Emotional, and changes I'd like to see
        in the world 
        52 - Teen
        Suicide, Education and Emotional, Psychological Needs 
        53 - Cutting
        the lifeline (about suicidal teens and those who control
        them) 
        54 -
        Redefining What it Means to be Smart? 
        55 - Goleman,
        Feelings, Depression 
        56 - Comments
        on Alfie Kohn's Five Reasons To Stop Saying Good
        Job! 
        57 -
        Feelings, Sensitive People
        - Feb 2006 
        58 - Stress,
        Pressure, Nature, Love, Self-Harm - March 2006 
        59 - Judging,
        Understanding, What if... +
        A few other potentially powerful questions 
         
        60 -70 
        60 - (on hold) 
        61 - Sports,
        Schools, War, England, Emotional Intelligence 
        62 - Motivation,
        Defining EI, Gods and Education 
        63- Love,
        Feelings, Priorities, Emotional Intelligence 
        64 - How do
        we know what emotional intelligence is? 
        65 - Love, Laws, Education -
        Renamed to love_laws_education - On Love page 
        66 - not
        finished- Some short
        thoughts, notes to myself about competition, sports,
        Israel, patriotism 
        67 - Moved into eiqs.htm 
        68 - What is
        Emotional Intelligence? 
        69 - Winning, Success, Emotional
        Intelligence and Suicide - unfinished 
         
        70 -79 
        70
        -Emotional Intelligence and Foolīs Gold 
        71 - see eij8 
        72 - Calling Conformity "Intelligence"
        and Confusing Skills with "Intelligence" 
        73 - Re-defining What it Means to be Smart 
        74 - Conformity, EI and Decision Making 
        75 - Schools, Soccer, Suicide and EI 
        76 -Motivation, Conformity, EII 
        77 - EI, Lying and South America 
        78 - Insecurity and Emotional Intelligence - The
        Story of the Missing Group 
        79 - Letter to
        a journalist 
         
        80 -
        Ocean, EI and Teen Suicide 
        81 Parenting,
        Suicide, EI 
        82 Is Terrorism
        Effective?  
        83 Motivation,
        Insecurity, EI, Romance 
        84 Teens,
        Responsibility, Punishment, Laws, Suicide 
        85 A few more
        words on Dans belated clarification about EI being
        80% of success 
        86 Blacks,
        Gays, Native Americans, EI and Teen Suicide  
        87 The Hanging
        Dog 
        88 Education,
        Obedience, Death 
        89 Teens,
        Rights, Needs, Laws and the Internet 
         
        90
        Leading in the Wrong Direction 
        91
        Competencies, Skills and Intelligence 
        92 Ability,
        Skill and Potential 
        93 Motivation,
        Education 
        94
        Universities, Emotional Intelligence and Society 
        95 Freedom,
        Equality and Emotional Intelligence 
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