Steve Hein's

Questions that can change your life and bring peace to the world.

How am I feeling? What do I need?

How are you feeling? What do you need?

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Jan 8, 2017 - I am working on a new page called "Help for Emotionally Abusive Mothers

Jan 5 - I have been trying to help a 15 year old who was locked up in a mental hospital by his emotionally abusive mother in the USA. I found out that it is even harder to help a teen than I thought. I have come to this conclusion:

Adults cause teen suicide.

I did a google search of that, feeling sure no one else has realized it and stated so explicitly, and sure enough this is the result

Thinking of how easy it was to have Alex locked up, I did this search: "With liberty and justice for all, unless you are under 18"

Here is the result...

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Caring vs. Control

Common "Negative" or Painful Feelings

Conflict Resolution

Cutting, Self Harm



Emotional Abuse

Emotionally Abusive Mothers

Emotional Intelligence

Emotional Literacy

Emotional Needs

Emotional Support

Emotionally Intelligent Alternative Society


Feeling Words

Free PDFs From EQI

Hein Painful Emotions Technique




Letters from the Unloved Book

Library & Bookstore



Mail from Readers

Needs vs. Rights



Personal Growth




Steve's Personal Stories from Around the World

Teen Suicide



Here is a more complete list of topics


Latest writing and new files

Jan 10 - Maybe She Doesn't Hit You

Jan 9 - What do kids really need | Critique of academic paper on suicide

Jan 8 - Update to Taking emotional abuse seriously

Dec 7 - Invalidation - Standing Rock example

more new stuff

Nov 30 - It's Your Choice | Religion, Belief Sytsems, Violence

Nov 29 - Feeling important or unimportant - journal writing | Cause, effect, responsibility | Smile or die | Susan David

Nov 28? What_made_america_violent


Nov 24 - A little writing on this page about children's emotional needs

Nov 20- Respect, Education, Attendance


Latest Links

Nov 30 Raw text copy of book Throw Them All Out - about corrupt USA politicians making money from their positions through insider trading etc.

Nov 29 Edward Snowden | Noam Chomsky | Howard Zinn Civil Disobedience | No reason to be depressed | Teens time in psych ward

Rapists can marry victims...??! WTF

Smile or Die RSA animated video based on this vid

Nov 26 |

Nov 23 - started new page

Notes from Martin Luther King's letter from Birmingham jail

Nov 22 -

Link between emotional abuse and depression

Tyranny of positivity

Chelsea Manning

Young Turks - Cenk Uygur talks about Noam Chomsky, Sam Harris

Nov 21 - Robert Whitaker... critiqueing psychiatry

Nov 20 My "alternative education" reading list |