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Are you in relationships where it is dangerous to tell the truth?

I was in this kind of relationship with my last partner, Priscilla. I was afraid to tell her things I thought or knew would hurt her, for example if I were attracted to another woman. She was afraid to tell me things that she knew or thought would hurt me, for example, that she didn't like traveling or camping or living in Australia or Uruguay. She was also afraid to tell me some of the things she was working on. She was afraid I would judge her or disapprove. In the United States I learned how to judge others. I am still trying to "unlearn" that and be more accepting and understanding.

I don't know if Priscilla will ever talk to me again or see me again or not. I feel a very big loss from her absence in my life. She was my best friend, my biggest supporter. She believed in my ideas. She applied them in her own life and our relationship.

I guess that is all I will say for today.

Recent mail...

ok - thanks for the reply. experience has taught me that for me to work with someone we need to have similar values, beliefs, and goals.

i'm afraid that doesn't apply in this case so good luck.

i believe there is too much competition in the world already, for example.


> I am currently in year 10 at ______ high school and I play lacrosse and
> netball. I work part time at a pizza shop but I need to save up $6000 by
> the end of next year for World Challenge, so I was hoping to earn some
> extra money on top of my job. It would really help me a lot, thanks!

> > hi amanda
> >
> > thanks for your mail .can u tell me a little about urself?
> >
> > s

> > Subject: work
> >
> > > hi, I'm just emailing to enquire about any work/ job opportunities that
> > you
> > > may have to offer?
> > > Thanks, Amanda
> > >
> > >
> >