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When I was living in Montenegro,
formerly part of the former dictatorship of
ex-Yugoslavia, I learned that they still had an archaic
law which required tourists to register with the police
each time they changed hotels. Here is my original
writing on that law.
I was thinking about the law here in
Montenegro that tourists are supposed to register
with the police when they visit here. I was
wondering why this law was ever created. I
wondered if it was to help the society function
more smoothly, like a traffic light, or if it was
to control people.
I have been to
around fifty countries and I have never had to
register with the police before. So it would seem
to me that this law is not necessary for things
to function smoothly in a country.
Then I started thinking about why people do or
dont follow a law. One of my first thoughts
is that if a law makes sense, people are more
likely to follow it. When I say making
sense I mean does it serve an obvious
purpose? Is the reason for the law immediately
clear to most people?
Several, even many, people have told me not to
worry about the law which says that I and my
hostel guests have to register with the police.
This implies to me that they have come to a
general consensus that the law isnt really
necessary or important. Evidently the police
share this opinion because if they did not, then
they would be punishing people, fining them,
deporting them etc. Of course, deporting tourists
is not a good way to attract them, and now
tourism is one of the brightest spots in the
Montenegrin economy, so it could be that the
police are using their judgment in when to
enforce this law.
This is actually one of the many things I like
about Montenegro. Things are not set in stone.
You can even argue with the police here and they
will not immediately call ten squad cars or the
SWAT team.
I want to keep this short, but I feel a need to
say something about punishment and motivation. My
question is this: What motivates a person to stop
at a red light? (Assuming there are no cars
coming and it would not be dangerous to enter the
intersection.)
Is it a
voluntary action based on the understanding that
traffic lights serve a useful purpose? Or is it
out of fear for getting punished if they do not
stop. I just would like to say that I believe our
social relations, actions and interactions
function more smoothly when people act based more
on the former kind of motivation and less on the
latter. One conclusion I have reached is that it
is therefore better to educate people so they
understand the reason for laws or rules than it
is to simply threaten them with punishment. I
would, by the way, like to see more education of
this sort in schools, where education could
logically be expected to be highly valued, and
less use of threats, fear and punishment as a
means of controlling students.
S. Hein
Feb 18, 2009
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Note:
I was told by several people who worked in the government
that the reason you are required to register with the
police is so you wont have any problems when you
leave the country. I found this explanation very
unsatisfying. It was also frustrating when I asked
several people who worked in the tourist information
office, in other words people you would expect would
know, and they each gave me different answers. Some said
you only have to do it once during your visit to the
country, some said you were supposed to do it each time
you changed hotels (or the hotels would do it for you)
and some said don't worry about it at all.
In the beginning I
didn't worry about it, or even know about it. Then one
day I met a girl from Russia who told me of being hassled
by a police officer. She had a mohawk hairdo and could
easily be stereotyped as an anarchist or something, so I
think that is why she was singled out. She was asked
about her registration card when she was still in the
country. She was warned that if he saw her again without
a registration card, he would have her deported.
After the exchange
with the police officer she felt threatened and
intimidated. If the officer would have been concerned
about her having problems at the border when she left the
country, he could have told her this in a helpful,
concerned caring way. I would call this an abuse of
power.
In any case, my first
thought about this is that the whole registration card
thing was some kind of security or in other words,
control, measure. The more I learned about this law and
laws in general in dictatorships or former dictatorships,
the more I feel sure the laws are based on controlling
the people, not protecting them or caring about them.
Apparently for
example, in former times in Yugoslavia, foreigners and
Balkan citizens who visited other Balkan countries were
required to show the border police where they had stayed
while in the country. For example, if someone from Serbia
visited Croatia, they might have been asked by the
Croatian border police where they had stayed. I suspect
this is because there were, lets say, not the best
of relations between the countries. And also, those in
power felt insecure and felt a big need to be in control
of everything. They felt insecure because they knew the
people weren't being treated well and had many reasons to
rebel.
Above I asked the question: What motivates a person to
stop at a stop light if there are no cars coming? Now I
would like people to think about what motivates a student
to turn to page 23 when a teacher tells them to? Or what
motivates a student to be quiet when they are told to?
I believe these questions are worth giving a lot of
thought to, especially in a country which is truly, or
even, ideally based on freedom and democracy.
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