EQI.org Home | Commands *under construction Imperatives I am not an expert in grammar but I know what the "imperative" form a verb is. It is what you use when you want to tell someone what to do. It is also called the "command" form of the verb. Gramatically, in English, the ending of the verb in the imperative form is usually about the same as the verb itself. So if the verb is "bring", the imperative form is "Bring.," like in "Bring me a chair." Here are examples of using the imperative or command form of verbs.
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Hurling Imperatives At Dogs and
Daughters Here is a true story from my first book. I observed this several years before I ever started to talking to teens who cut.
EQ for Everybody, S. Hein, p 125 2014- I have decided to put the first name in of the teen who was being treated like the dog. Her name is Zoey. She lived in Fort Wayne, Indiana. |
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Here is part of a chat.... [steve] oh, btw, do u know what the
imperative form of a verb means? After I had explained this, later in the chat she said "Talk to her." So I asked, "Is that an imperative?" She replied, "No, it's a suggestion." - Obviously, Mia felt defensive when I asked if it was an imperative, so she denied that it was. She could have laughed or said "oops" or many other things. These little responses tell us a lot about what kind of environment a person has been raised in. From this and many other things I know about Mia, she has been struggling to survive in an emotionally hostile environment where it is common to verbally attack one another. So it is natural she has learned to be defensive. Compare Mia's reply with Nelia's below for example. |
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From
A Convo with Nelia
- 2012 (Nelia is a teenager from Indonesia) Steve: just a sec Nelia: take your time Steve: is than an order? ha ha Steve: Here is more reading for you... to help with your English... ha ha Then she read this page... Nelia: "I guess it is an order. ha ha"
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