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Hug Is The Answer
Here is a copy of a
chat I had today with "Melissa."
Melissa: One night I
had really bad emotions during the middle of the night
and asked my bf for my keys to my car so I could drive it
into a tree, i was in tears, and he literally wrapped his
arms around me and locked me inside of his arms and said
he is not letting go, regardless of how hard i try to
break out of his arms
Steve: aw. hug. I'm
glad he didn't let you go.
Melssa: thanks
Melissa: How are you
dealing with being suicidal day in and out, because I am
ready to let go soon, it makes me feel at peace when i
think of letting go....
Melissa: you know what I mean? I mean, I am not one to
give up, I don't like giving up, but after several years
of desperatly trying to build myself back up, and
failing, I am exhausted, and have done everyhting in
"the book"
Steve: hug
Steve: yeah i think i know what u mean
Steve: im glad ur still alive
Steve: cuz right now it helps to talk to u
Melissa: like it helps just to be able to connect with
someone else?
Steve: yeah
Steve: someone that understands a lot of this
Melissa: I want someone to come up with a no bullshit
anwser to "what do you do when you've been
hospitalized, been on medication, been through thousands
of docs, therapists etc and all have not provided me with
hope"
Melissa: it bothers me when you hear psychologists say
"suicide is a permanent anwser to a temporary
solution" but what I'm looking for iis a permanent
anwser, it's so difficult that life cannot provide you
with solid anwsers - thats where i'm at right now
Steve: aw
Steve: hug
Steve: thats my answer
Melissa: i like hug, thats a good enough anwser for me
right now..
So "a hug is the
answer" is one of the many, many important things they didn't
teach me in school.
S. Hein
June 6, 2011
Sydney, Australia
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