okay 12/20/2002
Things are okay.
My Aunt has the next week or so off because school is out.
We are getting along okay now.
Things are fine.
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trouble sleeping, Dare, Mike 12/21/2002
I coudn't sleep again. My Aunt questioned me on it, and, I
didn't really have an answer as to why. She suggested that if it
continues, we should talk to a doctor about sleeping pills.
I don't think I am very up to that idea. or pills of any sort
that is...
Anyway, Mike and I have still been talking on the phone. I feel
bad that I am lieing to my Aunt about it...really, is is lieing
if you just aren't telling?
I really don't understand what the big deal is. We are only
friends. We talk and keep each other company. We haven't even
known eachother very long, so I don't understand what my Aunt's
problem is. She says that he is too old or whatever. He isn't
even that old.
I am thinking about going to Church with my Aunt on Sunday. I am
not religious, but, religious "leaders" were always the
people who conforted me the most when I felt alone. Right now, I
am feeing pretty alone.
It will pass, I am sure. It's probably just the crappy weather
and the fact that I am worrieing about Dare so much...out there
in the cold, again.
kali
Mike talked to my AUnt! 12/22/2002
Mike called me today. I was quite suprised, because, he knows
that my Aunt didn't want me talking to him. At first I was angree
that he put me in that situation...of getting "caught."
"My would have been mad if she answered the phone," I
told told him perhaps a bit bitterly.
"No, it's okay," he said,"I talked to her this
morning."
I was completely shocked!
Apparently, while I was in the shower today, he had called my
house and my AUnt answered. He said that he wasn't calling for
me, but for her.
I guess they talked for a good fifteen minuets or so. My Aunt
explained that she didn't want me to get hurt, used, ect. ect. I
guess that she mentioned that in the High School she works at,
she sees a lot of younger girls who are basically used by these
older guys, and, being vulnerable, they fall right into it.
Mike explained that we are only friends, and that he wouldn't
hurt me. He said that we have a good time together and feel
confortable talking to eachother. He said that I was a good
listener, and that he thought we both needed a friend who we can
talk to right now...which is really true.
I can't believe my Aunt never even told me that they had talked
today! She didnt' mention it at all. Maybe she was waiting for
Mike to mention it.
Anyway, I am glad that he did. It takes a big weight off of my
shoulder. I hate sneaking around and stuff. Mike has more courage
than me. I suppose he is more mature, as well...because that
takes a lot to stop the sneaking around and just be honest.
Anyway, apparently, my Aunt said that we can talk and do things
together...but, she wants to meet him. He is going to come by
some time tomorrow. I am kind of nervous, but, it should be good.
My Aunt mentioned going to dinner, which should take some tention
off because we wont' have to talk as much...we'll have food in
our mouths..haha.
I am glad that I don't have to loose this friendship. I know that
it probably won't last "forever." He will be going back
to school and be surrounded by his peers again, and maybe he will
forget me...this fourteen year old. (even though he says he
thinks of me as an equal. )
But, right now, it is good...and...I guess I can only live for
today. Life is hard enough, and, dwelling on what might happen,
or, dwelling on the past, only makes it so much more worse. I
will try to live for today.
Hmm...sounds like something somebody would say in AA. A counsolor
at the Juvinile facility used to always tell me that..."LIve
for today..." It is kind of conrey, I guess, but, whatever
gets you through another day is worth it.
First Christmas... 12/27/2002
I haven't celebrated Chirstmas in years...IN fact, I don't
ever really remember celebrating it. Usually, my family would try
too, but, some sort of fight would break out and ruin everything.
I guess it's okay, since we weren't a religious family.
Christmas is superficial, but, I was also kind of jealous of
people who celbrated christmas...not because of presents or
anything, but, becaue, they all seemed extra nice to eachother.
ANyway, my AUnt is kind of relgious. She does do the superficial
stuff too. She got me so much! I really couldn't believe it. I
started crying...not because I got so much "stuff" but,
because of the gesture.
This is probably more "stuff" than I have ever even
owned in my life.
I guess he only did it becasue she doesn't have kids...younger
kids anyway. She's divorced and doesn't have a lot of family.
And, it's my first CHristmas with her...and last christmas
was....cold and crappy and lonely.
She got me lots of clothes, books, DVD's, games, journals...silly
stuff like that...
I hope that I don't sound like some superficial air head. I am
really not...I even feel guilty for likeing the stuff. I grew up
not having much, and, I feel very guilty for having all of this
and ebcause she spent so much money on me.
Oh well.
Mike came over for about fifteen minuets on Christmas to say hi.
He's having trouble dealing with his borhter right now. His
brother is really messed up.
Well, I have to go.
I am tired.
I wonder what my mother did on Christmas...
and, I even wonder how my father is and what he woudl think
knowing that am doign good...well, I thinkn I am doing good
anyway. I guess I am sort of adjusting to this new life.
Kali
depressed, i guess 12/31/2002
almost 12:30
can't sleep
even though im tired
hes always there in my dreams threatening me
making me feel sick to my stomach
I woke up and my pillows were wet and my hair wet
I must have been crying in my sleep
or sweating a lot
I wonder if my aunt reads thise ven though she saids he wouldn't
if she is I want her to know that i am so scared
and feel like i want to give up sometimes
i try to put everything behind me but its to hard
the memoires to strong
things are good here and it scares me sometimes...like i think
things are too good and that it will all end or I will wake up
from a dream
also, i don'tfeel like I deserve all of htis
Aunty,i've done so much wrong that you don't even know about
i say that i did it to survivebut maybe i didn't
maybe i did...do...deserve to be locked up
i wish that i had someone to talk too
I can't talk to mike about everythig because...i can't...
i can't talk to my counsolor about everything...
i don 't even know whati want to talk about or even if i want to
talk
i am worried about "dare"
it's so cold out tonight and i want him to be okay
its stragne but i miss being out there with him somtimes
other than the cold and hunger sometimes i felt free with him
especially in old montrea when dare and i would listen to the
guitarists play
once, i sang for one of the guitarist and he gave me some of the
money that people gave to him
My aunt asked me what I want to do with my life and I didn't
know.
should i know?
i feel so far behind everyone. i don't know whats normal and
whats not normal
i don't know who i am...sometimes, i wonder if i am real
isn't that strange? sometimes i think wierd things up.
i scare myself sometimes
it would be so easy to crawl out my window and run away...find
dare...
maybe in the summer when it's warm...maybe i will try to get a
job so that i don't have to ask random people for money...
i hated doing that...people woudl give me such wierd
looks...sometimes people would be rude and think that i woudl by
drugs with it or something.
people are mean.
who cares anymore... 1/10/2003
who cares anymore?
Feel like packing my bags and leaving...but where too? my Aunt
hasn't done anything. She's great. But, i don't know. i cant
explane what Im feeling and thinking. I need to get away...maybe
I am running away from myself or maybe I think I don't deserve to
have this confy home because of everytinh i've done before. Maybe
I am just a whiney bit ch. Maybe I'm just sad. i don't know whats
wrong. I just know that somethingss not rigght.
Until next time
Kali
a survey I found...the first and probably only on 1/11/2003
1. Have you ever cut yourself: not purposly, if that is what
this question is asking.
2. If you answered yes to number one, with what:
3. Do you cut yourself on a regular basis: lol, I fall a
lot...but again, I don't cut myself on purpose.
4. Have you ever been depressed: yes, doesn't everybody?
5. are you depressed now- yes
6. Have you ever thought about suicide: yeah
7. If you were going to kill yourself how would you do it: I try
not to think about that...it is too morbid
8. Have you gotten close to trying suicide: yeah
9. Are you suicidal now: no
10. Have you ever tried drugs: yes
11. If yes to number 10, which ones: "pot"
"E" I did heroin once but not willingly so that doesn't
count...nothing to hard willingly
12. Are you addicted or do you think you're addicted to any
drugs: probably not, I don't do them anymore
13. Have you ever tried alcohol: sure
14. If you said yes to 13, do you drink it often: not anymore
15. If yes to 14, how often: dunno, none now that i am with my
aunt
16. have you ever been physically abused? Yes
17. Have you ever been sexually abused: yeah
18. Are you a survivor of incest: a shameful yes
19. Does your family own a gun: I don't have a "family"
20. Could you get access to a gun if you wanted to: Yes
21. Could you get access to any other weapon: yeah.
22. Have you ever wanted to kill someone: hmm, I don't
know...maybe my father and his friends...but, not anymore
23. If yes to 22, did you ever come close: no
24. Was there a shooting in your school: i don't go to school
25. If yes to 24, did you actually witness it with your own eyes:
26. Have you ever taken anti-depressants: no, but someone is
trying to make me and i wont'
27. Have you ever taken any other type of medication: yes
28. Do you have a psychologist: a social worker
29. Do you have a psychiatrist: i have an oppointment for one,
unfortually
30. Do you like life: sometimes
why doi do this to myself 2/2/2003
Since I got back, My aunt is so scared of me leaving again.
She cried and cried and cried when she saw me. And of course,
this made me feel even worse about leaving in the first place.
I don't know why I do this to myself. Something good happens t o
me (finding my aunt and living here) and I leave.
Leaving my fa ther is one thing, but my aunt. My aunt is good
tome.
I keep asking myself over and over why I left in the first place.
THe only thing I can come up with is that I cant'except the fact
that someone is treating me good and I want self destruction...
I am glad to be home now, though.
I am sick of the streets, cheap hotels, peoiple doing drugs and
having sex around me, seeing hungry people, shelters, "soup
kitchens," being dirty,
I am going to make it here. I deserve this, don't I? Maybe I lef
tbecause I felt like I didn't deserve it. Maybe I wanted to leave
before my aunt realizes how terribal I am and kicks me out. I
know that wouldn't happen. but I think crazy things like this.
I will stay this time. and do anyt hing I can to make it up to my
aunt for making her so so scared and worried. SHe is scared to
keep me out of her sight...even now,s he is watching tv in the
living room, looking at me ever few mminuets. SHe never watches
tv...it's because im in the living room on the computer.
I don't blame her. She's scared.
how do I make her not worry that i will leave. how do I make her
not worry that I will be okay?
oh, ih ave to talk to the police tomorrow. My aunt had made a
missing person's report, and she called to say that i came back.
now, the police want to talk to me...
im scared i will hve problem now for leaving my aunts...is it
illegal?
My aunt said that they will probabl;y make me go to counsoling
manditory or something...even thought I already was...
what if they want to put me bak in some place...or put me in a
group home or something...this is the second time plus i have
that old shop lifting charge before I came to live with my
aunt....
why do i do this to myself?
kali
Home again... 2/2/2003
Man, a lot has gone on in the last month or so. I am not going
to write it all here, though...at least not right now.
The basic "gist" of it is that I haven't been home, or
with my Aunt. I came back the other day, though.
I must be stupid. THings go good for me, and I can't accept that
they are good, and I have to try to mess them up again. Sometimes
I'm my own worse enemy I think.
I'm just glad my Aunt isn't giving up on me and still wants me to
live with her.
I'm so lucky.
Kali
who am I anyway? 2/5/2003
My AUnt is having a big dinner at the house tonight with some
of the people she works with at her school. I have never really
been to "dinner party's" and, to tell you the truth, it
isn't very confortable. I feel like I have to be polite
and...like...it with a certain fork or somethin. My AUnt told me
to relax...that it isn't a big deal and to just be myself.
Who's that?
I realized last night, while I lyed in bed, that I Really
haven'ta clue who I am. I don't really know what I like or
anything...I've always been so worried about taking care of
somebody else, avoiding being hurt, and mearly surviving, that I
haven't had the chance to really find out who I am.
I was telling my Aunt this the other day. SHe said that most
people my age don't really know who they are. I guess I am young.
I'm not even 16...I feel old sometimes, though. I definatly can't
relate to 14 and 15 year olds. They live in another world, it
seems like.
I have plenty of time. I guess I am not going anywhere. I have
everything I Need. I am not taking care of anybody
else...lol...it doesn't even seen like I have o take care of
myself because my aunt wants to do that! geez...so...I guess I
have pleanty of time to...figure these things out.
hmm..
Kali
a new guitar 2/6/2003
I can't really sleep, so,I thought that I would come on here
since there isn't anything good on television. Besides, I don't
like tv that much anyway.
My AUnt wants to start my "home schooling" back up.
Uck. I guess it is better than going to a regular school. I have
to learn to adjust to these "routines" that normal
people have...and rules...like, nobody used to MAKE me study or
anything. ANd here, it is just expected...It's just a hard
adjustment. Im used totaking care of myself. Oh well.
Anyway. Yeah.
I need a hobby to keep myself sane. What is there to do? I can't
do anything outside really because it is so cold in the winter. I
play guitar a bit. I sing. Maybe I will get back into the guitar
and singing. I'm pretty good at it actually.well...the guitar
anyway. My last guitar got stolen...I wonder if my Aunt woud lend
me a couple hundred dollars to get a used guitar...I Hate to ask
for money, though... Maybe I can make some kind of deal with her.
I wish I was old enough to get a job...Maybe I can find a cheap
guitar that's banged up that I can fix myself for cheap. I could
probably fix up a guitar myself...
haha, now I am starting to get excited. I mis splaying and
writing songs.
I want to try to make my own style. I play a bit of everything.
Nirvana is fun to play...that gets you energzed...But I also like
softer music and some "Oldies" Mostly, I liketo make my
own music...it would be cool to start a style of music completely
unique from all of the steriotypes...
Kali
playing 2/13/2003
yeah. I haven't been online much other than to get guitar tabs
and music.
I really have been throwing myself into the music in the last
couple of days. I convinced my aunt to get me a guitar. Actually,
it didn't take much convincing. I just ask for suggestions on how
I could make some money, she asked for what, and I told her. SHe
told me to concider it an early birthday presant.
ANyway, at least this gives me some time to keep my mind of
things. I've been writing music and lyrics and have came up with
a few good things.
Things are okay anyway
kali
the entire court situation 3/1/2003
wow, it's been quite awhile since I"ve written in here. I
guess I get bored with things easily...oh well.
I haven't been up to much. Mostly practising my guitar. I'm so
glad that I got one. I've missed playing a lot. Haha, maybe I
will join a band. I'm not sure if my Aunt owuld go for that, but
I would like it. I would love performing for a crowd.There aren't
many female guitarist for rock bands, though.
Anyway, I am happy that I got around the courts for the incident
awhile ago...my leaving home thing. My Aunt went in there and
pleaded with them to give me another chance...blablabla. Anyway,
I was worried that they would try to say that I can't stay with
my Aunt because I migh try running again. But, that isn't how it
worked out. I am glad. I"m so lucky to have her.
Some case worker (Im not sure what he is ) has to come by once in
awhile to see how things are, though. TO make sure I am going to
my appointments, cooporating, doing my homeschooling plan, ect.
My Aunt is unconfortable with him, but, as long as I can stay
here, it's fine, for now.
My Aunt and doctor are still trying to get me to go on
medication. I told my Aunt that I didn't want too. That I am
fine. She says that I am not. You don't do anything, you high one
minuet, low another minuet, you don't eat enough, ect. ect.
ect... Sometimes I think that because she is a counsolor (well, a
guidence counsolor) that she is trying to...counsel me. It is
really annoying. I tell her that I fine. I am usually. WEll, I am
functioning. I'm doing good concidering everything that's
happened in the last few years. I think that she thinks I am
going to become like some of her students at her school...like,
cut myself, try to kill myself, bla bla. I am seeing a counjsolor
even though I don't want too...can't she be happy with that? lol,
I don't need another counsoller. I need my Aunt.
OH well...
On another note, I haven't talked to MIke much. He's back in
collage and doesn't have time for a little ol me anymore. Oh
well. I guess I understand. We still talk on the phone
occasionally, but not much beyond that. Oh well. I have my guitar
now, so who needs him? I'm just kidding. Jokeing makes it feel
better.
Kali
im still here 3/8/2003
I am bored and tired.
My AUnt is getting annoyted that I am staying up so late lately.
But, what do I hvae to get up int he morning for? I am home
schooled, so, I basically have all day to do my assignments.I
don't really have anything to get up early in the morning, so why
shouldn't I stay up late. I think she's just cranky because she
has to work in the monrings.
My Aunt wants me to start talking and meeting new people. She
says that if I don't agree to go out more, that she is going to
try to get me back in school so that I can be around people my
own age. She's really getting on my nerves lately. She's nagging
a lot. Im not used to it and feeling edgy. LIke I wanna do
somthin to do something...I miss the freedom. I hate feeling
convined and not being able to do what I want when I want how I
want. That's one thing I miss about my old life. I did whatever I
wanted. I guess im still "adjusting" as my counsolor
says. Its hard and sometimes, I feel like i just wanna leave
again.I can't do that though cuz then I would be in big trouble
when Im found. BEsides, I love my AUnt...I do...I wish I could
tell her. But I am sick of feeling so convined and resticted.
kali
a puppy dog 3/19/2003
wow. It's been awhile since i wrote in here.
Im bored. My Aunt went out with a friend. I think she felt
unconfortable leaving me here alone, but, I eventually convinced
her that I am fine and am not going any where."Don't
worry," I kept telling her.
I can't play my guitar until I get a new strings. Well, I guess I
cuold play with the one missing string, but, it wouldn't be too
good. I've been listening to a lot of bands with females. I like
them. Hole really inspires me. I wanna be just like Cortney
Love...haha, just kidding. But, I do admire something about
her...she seems to have a free spirit that I would love to have.
Not to mention, she has a great sound.
Anyway, I need some book suggestions. I have been in the mood to
read. I am going go to the librbary someday this week. Anybody
have anything interesting ideas?
OH YEAH! My Aunt got me a puppy! I was so suprised and excited.
It's so small and so cute. It's so vulnerable. I love to hold it
and take care of it.
I think she got it because we were talking one day, and I said
something about never having any sort of animal becuae the
"parents" wouldn't want one. I didn't expect her to go
out and get me one.
Anyway, gonna get going now..
Kali
I am Canadien here me roar 3/19/2003
Bush is an idiot.
Watching the news. He seems to be on a power trip. "I am the
most powerful person in the world. You will never question my
authority."
What an idiot.
I am glad that I am Canadien =)
Go Canada! lol
Play Hockey! lol
Kali
A phone call from my mom! 3/22/2003
WOW.
I CAN'T BELIEVE WHAT HAPPENED TODAY! MY MOTHER CALLED OUT OF THE
BLUE!!!
Anyway, let me start from the beggining. this afternoon, my Aunt
and I were making dinner when the phone rang. She answered it.
When she answered the phone, I sort of saw her face go blank and
she asked me to go into the other room.
Somehow, I am not sure how, but I KNOW it was her. It was so
strange how I knew...but I could almost sence that it was her.
Anyway, I was sort of ease dropping on my Aunt. I heard her
talking in a very firm voice, almost yelling. "She's safe
here." I Heard her saying. "Where have you been the
last couple years? DO you have any idea where you daughter has
been?" I have never seen my Aunt get this upset before.
I guess that my mom wanted to talk to me,but, my Aunt hung up on
her.
When my Aunt hung up the phone she walked over to the table and
sat down for a minuet. I walked in and sat by her. She didn't
reallly say anything. I guess we both sort of were reading
eachtoher's mind.
Faith ( I named my puppy faith ) is jumping on my lap as I write
this. I'm so glad I have her. I dn't feel like I Have anybody
else right now. I don't know what to do. I miss my mother, but,
she hurt me so bad. I know that when she hurt me, it wasn't her.
It was the stuff she was doing. We had soem good times together.
What hurts me most is that she left. I wonder if she knows about
my "Dad." I wonder if she would care.
SO much has happened since I've seen her last. I've experienced
more things than a lot of people. I've seen some bad crap.
SOmetimes when I get this scared I want to run again. But I
won't. I am safe here.
I Wonder if my mom is still drinking and doign drugs. I wonder if
she is going to just "show up" one day. I wonder where
she has been. I wonder why she left. I wonder if she will think I
am sick and gross when she finds out about dad, I wonder if she
already knows, I wonder if she wants me back.
I wont go. If she comes and tries to get me, I won't go. I will
run again. I have people I can stay with. that life isn't easty,
but I won't live with her again. What if she wanted to getback
together with dad and want me to move in with her? No.
I am staying with my AUnt, and if I can't, I will go back to jail
or the street if I have to.
We must take care of ourselfs and I will.
Anyway, takinga deep breath. I am getting ahaead of myself. Maybe
it was just a phone call...nothing more.
I am going to go mess arou8nd with my guitar and come down.
Kali
3/22/03 3/22/2003
Well, my mom hasn't "dropped by" unexpected yet.
I'm not sure if I want to see her. But, I do. I'm not sure what I
would say.
A part of me hopes that she has changed. HOped that she will say
that she is sorry for everything she did while she wasn't
"all there," and sorry that she left me. SOrry for what
happened with dad, sorry that I had to leave, sorry about the
legal trouble.
I don't blame her for everything. I didn't have to run away. I
could have put up with it, or, I could have reported it, I
suppose. But, I was young, I still am young, but, younger. I was
scared that nobody would believe me. I know now that they
probably would have.
I just want her to throw her arms around me and tell me that she
is sorry and that things will be different. It would; be cool if
she really had changed and we could get an apartment or soething
and live together. It would be so cool.
I would hate to leave my AUnt after her being so good to me.,
ANyway, what am i talking about. None of this will ever happen.
Even if my mom is clean and she did come back, she wouldn't be
able to take care of me, and, who knows how long it would last.
I'm re naming my puppy Destiny...I've always liked that name. I
don't know if I believe in "Destiny," but, it is a good
thought...
haha, Destiny is so cute. I love her so much. SHe sleeps with me
at night...she crawls onto me and licks my cheek and wakes me up.
It's so cute. Haha. I'm so glad I have her.
I haven't talked to my Aunt mucha bout the p hone call from my
mom. She wants me too, but, erally, what is there to say. I'm not
sure how I FEEL about it. I'm not sure of anything right now.
Anyway, off to do some "homework" if you wanna call it
that.
im strangeeee 7/13/2003
bored. re strung my guitar today.
decided maybe I don't want to do the band thing right now.
thought about it and realized i would have a bunch of people
looking at me and watching me play, and that wouldn't be
cool...besides, right now, there isn't any pressure. i play for
me.
I mentioned in a past entry that a woman one day gave me her card
on the street saying that she works in the modaling busness and
she wants me to "go try out," or something like that. I
was thinking maybe I would do it. i would get some money...but
then again, do I want people looking at me all the time??? No,
not really.
No, bad idea.
I'm just sick of feeling so dependent upon my aunt and want to
kow that if i had to leave again, that, i would be a ble to
support myself in a way that wuoldn't hurt me.
I feel confined lately...miss the freedom i used to have...
i like being clean, having food and a warm place...but, it feels
so confining sometimes. i doubt anybody understands.
I guess im just strange.
i don't understand people. 7/14/2003
Can't sleep again.
Damn. I haven't been getting a lot of sleep at all lately.
I was really suprised last night when Mike called me. I hadn't
heard from his in a long time...since he went back to collage. It
kind of hurt. I thought we were good friends, but then, he just
goes away and stops calling or stopping by.
Anyway, out of the blue last night, he called. He called kind of
late and my aunt was a bit upset...she isn't REALLY confortable
with the fact that he's 20 now and I am just goint to be turning
15...though, i do look quite a bit older...i think anyway.
He didn't say much. "Hi." He said.
I didn't even know who it was at first. He had to tell me.
"OH...MIke..." I replied, not knowing what to say.
Wanting to know why he just "threw our friendship
away." He ws the only friend I had here.
"Sorry I didn't call," he said. "It was too hard
to talk to you and hear your voice."
Now, okay? What the hell does that mean???
I don't understand people.
I asked him what he meant and he said he didn't want to talk
about it. Aren't we supposed to be friends? I thought friends
could talk about things. Whatever. I get so angry when people
aren't forward with me and tell me what they are thinking.
So, I have no idea what is going on with him...I'm clueless when
it comes to people...and I want to kow what he meant when he said
that it was to hard to talk to me. I thought I was easy to talk
too..? He said that in the past?
I don't understand people---espcially guys. They just don't make
any sence.
We got along so well together and now, all of the sudden, it's to
hard to talk to me or even hear my voice? THat makes me feel
great.
Anybody understand people better than me? I guess i need more
practice at that "human interaction" thing...becuase, I
don't get people.
an angry...
Kali
still don't get people 7/14/2003
didn't do much today. im pretty tired becuase i haven't been
sleeping to well at night. thinking a bout a lot of things...
im still confused about mike. I wish i udnerstood
people...especially guys.
oh well.
the song i've been working on is almost done. it's pretty good.
it's a mix between the style of kurt cobain and nine inch
nails...now i just have to work on some lyrcs...i might take some
singing lessons. i would like to sing my own songs. but, we'll
see.
i hate being poor. haha. iknow my aunt would give me the money if
I asked, but, i guess it would be kind of a waste and she already
spends too much money on me as it is!
oh well, so, im confused...
thinkinga bout Mike. He gave me his number so many I will
call..but do I want too...after all, last night he said that it
hurt him to hear my voice. lol, maybe I will hurt his ears or
something if I called him.
I DON"T GET PEOPLE
This is really bothering me.
1:59 PM tell me.
"OH...MIke..." I replied, not knowing what to say.
Wanting to know why he just "threw our friendship
away." He ws the only friend I had here.
"Sorry I didn't call," he said. "It was too hard
to talk to you and hear your voice."
Now, okay? What the hell does that mean???
I don't understand people.
I asked him what he meant and he said he didn't want to talk
about it. Aren't we supposed to be friends? I thought friends
could talk about things. Whatever. I get so angry when people
aren't forward with me and tell me what they are thinking.
So, I have no idea what is going on with him...I'm clueless when
it comes to people...and I want to kow what he meant when he said
that it was to hard to talk to me. I thought I was easy to talk
too..? He said that in the past?
I don't understand people---espcially guys. They just don't make
any sence.
We got along so well together and now, all of the sudden, it's to
hard to talk to me or even hear my voice? THat makes me feel
great.
Anybody understand people better than me? I guess i need more
practice at that "human interaction" thing...becuase, I
don't get people.
an angry...
Kali
im strangeeee 7/13/2003
bored. re strung my guitar today.
decided maybe I don't want to do the band thing right now.
thought about it and realized i would have a bunch of people
looking at me and watching me play, and that wouldn't be
cool...besides, right now, there isn't any pressure. i play for
me.
I mentioned in a past entry that a woman one day gave me her card
on the street saying that she works in the modaling busness and
she wants me to "go try out," or something like that. I
was thinking maybe I would do it. i would get some money...but
then again, do I want people looking at me all the time??? No,
not really.
No, bad idea.
I'm just sick of feeling so dependent upon my aunt and want to
kow that if i had to leave again, that, i would be a ble to
support myself in a way that wuoldn't hurt me.
I feel confined lately...miss the freedom i used to have...
i like being clean, having food and a warm place...but, it feels
so confining sometimes. i doubt anybody understands.
I guess im just strange.
3/22/03 3/22/2003
Well, my mom hasn't "dropped by" unexpected yet.
I'm not sure if I want to see her. But, I do. I'm not sure what I
would say.
A part of me hopes that she has changed. HOped that she will say
that she is sorry for everything she did while she wasn't
"all there," and sorry that she left me. SOrry for what
happened with dad, sorry that I had to leave, sorry about the
legal trouble.
I don't blame her for everything. I didn't have to run away. I
could have put up with it, or, I could have reported it, I
suppose. But, I was young, I still am young, but, younger. I was
scared that nobody would believe me. I know now that they
probably would have.
I just want her to throw her arms around me and tell me that she
is sorry and that things will be different. It would; be cool if
she really had changed and we could get an apartment or soething
and live together. It would be so cool.
I would hate to leave my AUnt after her being so good to me.,
ANyway, what am i talking about. None of this will ever happen.
Even if my mom is clean and she did come back, she wouldn't be
able to take care of me, and, who knows how long it would last.
I'm re naming my puppy Destiny...I've always liked that name. I
don't know if I believe in "Destiny," but, it is a good
thought...
haha, Destiny is so cute. I love her so much. SHe sleeps with me
at night...she crawls onto me and licks my cheek and wakes me up.
It's so cute. Haha. I'm so glad I have her.
I haven't talked to my Aunt mucha bout the p hone call from my
mom. She wants me too, but, erally, what is there to say. I'm not
sure how I FEEL about it. I'm not sure of anything right now.
Anyway, off to do some "homework" if you wanna call it
that.
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